Being the loser is read as fear of failure and disappointment. Dream books treat it as an invitation to look at how you measure your own worth.
Where in your waking life have you met something like this lately?
My Cosmic Code has a private dream journal. Write a dream down and the app picks out the symbols in it, shows what dream books say about them and, over time, which words recur across your entries. The journal is stored on your device only.