A funeral in a dream is read as the end of a chapter, not of a life. Tradition sees it as saying goodbye to an old role, habit or relationship so that something else can begin. Attending the funeral of someone still living points to a change in your bond with them, or a part of them you miss. Your own funeral is read as a deep transformation of how you see yourself. Feeling calm at a funeral suggests acceptance; feeling nothing may point to a goodbye not yet felt.
Where in your waking life have you met something like this lately?
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